FINAL EDIT: @nomad@infosec.pub found it, it’s Roswell Conspiracies, thank you everyone!
The white-haired females would frequently meet at a Stonehenge-like monument where there was also some kind of a portal. I also only remember this one specific scene and nothing beyond that:
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There are men who are restrained, and their mouths are being held open. An elderly man places a large egg on top of a ramp, and the lower end of the ramp is connected to the mouth of one of the restrained men. The egg eventually hatches, and a big snail emerges from it. The snail then slowly slides down the ramp and enters the mouth of the man, who is forced to swallow it. As a result, the man is immediately brainwashed and gains additional physical powers and will serve as an additional soldier for that old man.
EDIT: the art style resembled that of X-Men Evolution
I feel you OP, I’ve recently spent many hours trying to find out about one animated show which I remember only a few tiny details of. I wasn’t successful.