Good luck. Sounds similar to the problem that the movement Stop Killing Games is trying to solve as well, which I doubt will get anywhere.

Sus isn’t even that new. Been using that since gmod ttt

I’ll still call someone a clown for paying even if I’m able to acknowledge that someone has to hold the bag. Just ain’t gonna me or hopefully anyone I care about.

I agree, but it’s frustrating to try to change perspective and make some changes while also seeing no results.

I’m in the college age group so I think it’s still somewhat realistic to make friends just for the sake of friends. I know people are busy with classes or work as so am I, but we can’t be THAT busy ALL the time. I probably exaggerated being ghosted but it’s happened so much that it’s infuriating. I know there are times where you just don’t feel like hanging out anymore on a particular day but at least give a raincheck if plans were made.

Maybe it’s also the few friends I have left or it’s the age group, but it’s tiring to just hear “nah hop on discord”. Like at this point I only have online friends left because we only socialize through online and playing video games while we could literally be going out doing something on the weekend. Had a conversation with a couple of them about it and they just see no reason to hangout irl. Maybe in person socializing isn’t important or valued.

I wouldn’t call trying to make plans with friends and meet new people then end up being ghosted or ditched as not taking initiative to socialize but alrighty. It’s exhausting, and for nothing to come out of it for months on end makes it seem pointless.

Because it shouldn’t be used as a discussion forum. It’s more similar to an irc and teamspeak

Discord didn’t replace forums imo, it replaced teamspeak, raidcall, mumble and Skype

I thought this requires permission to a router. Can you do this say at a dorm or an apartment where internet is provided for you through a portal

I sometimes forget to turn on do not disturb so this has definitely happened to me before ¯\(ツ)/¯

I just stay inside with the nice AC lol

It’s infuriating how many times I’ve seen a locked thread with no answer linking to a similar yet different problem that doesn’t solve my issue.

o7