• Showroom7561@lemmy.ca
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    1 month ago

    Reminder to anyone who still smokes: you smell like shit 100% to anyone you interact with.

    And any place you still smoke in, whether your car or home, also smells like shit.

    And to delivery drivers who smoke, the packages you deliver smell like shit, too!

    • nepenthes@lemmy.world
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      1 month ago

      Positive reinforcement works better for helping people quit :(

      Especially when quitting smoking tanks a person’s dopamine levels. It takes weeks for the body to re-regulate production.

      To anyone reading this who has quit/is quitting: congratulations! It’s tough, you have shown a force of willpower and should be proud of yourself.

      Love, a fellow Canadian.

      Edit:

      As with other forms of punishment, aversive methods are generally less effective than positive approaches. It is more important to reward and praise desirable behaviors than to react negatively to unwanted ones. Encouraging a person’s ability to enjoy self-affirmation and self-pride will help them internalize healthy attributes and to become a person deserving of admiration…Shame doesn’t motivate prosocial behaviors; it fuels social withdrawal and low self-esteem.

      Source: took some psych courses
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      https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/longing-nostalgia/201705/why-shaming-doesnt-work